Dosto Meri Help Karein Please :(

javedali1211

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"Hi dosto main zindagi ke ek aese situation par hon mujhe kuch samajh nahi aaraha hai ap dosto se guzarish hai please mujhe advise dein main kya karon"


"Main ek larki se behad pyar karta hun or wo bhi mujh se behad pyar karti hai hum 2 years se phone pe bat karte aa rahe hain wo meri relative hai 22 to 25 bar hum mil bhi chuke hain ek dosre ko hum ne samjha hai humari adatein bhi milti julti hain is tarah humen in 2 years me jo pyar ho gaya wo hum nahi bata sakte na wo mere bina jee sakti hai aur na main uske bina jee sakta hun lekin 3 month pehle meri gf ka koi relative hai us ko meri gf ka number mil gaya tha us ne 3 month se meri gf ko msgs kar ke kaha ke main ap se behad pyar karta hun wo aesi pyari pyari batein karta rehta tha meri gf se agay to main nahi janta ke un dono ke beech me kya kya batein hui lekin meri gf mujhe batati aarahi thi ke ye mujh se aesi batein karta hai maine apni gf ko bola tum usko jawab mat do bas ainda usko text mat karo to meri gf ne bola theek hai lekin 1 month bad mujhe pata chala ke meri gf ab tak us se batein karti hai or meri gf ko bhi ab wo pasand honey laga tha ab ek hafta hua hai maine meri gf ko bola mujhe acha nahi lagta hai usko msgs mat karo to meri gf ko thora bura laga wo thora alag behave karne lagi mujh se mujhe us waqt thora tenshan hua ke akhir kya ho raha hai ye sub kuch to 2 din pehle rat ko meri gf ne call kiya aese bat karte karte maine usko kaha ke ainda us insan ko msgs mat karna to wo ro pari aur rote hue bataya ke mujhe us se pyar ho gaya hai aese mano meri pao se zameen he nikal gai ho mujhe yakeen nahi ho raha tha ke meri gf ne ye bat kahi hai jis ke liye main pagal hun jo mujh se sath nibhane ki batein karti thi us ne mujhe aese bola hai phir wo bohat roi ghanta poora hum ne bat ki maine kaha agar tum uske sath khush ho to main tumhari khushi ki khatir tumhe main uske sath hamesha ke liye chor kar chala jaunga to us ne kaha main kya karon akhir mujhe us se kese pyar ho gaya kuch samjh nahi aaraha hai main karon bhi to kya karon maine kaha aese nahi ho sakta tum ko ek he insan select karna hoga to us ne kaha ke mujhe 1 din ka waqt chahiye main dil se soch kar bataongi to us ne agli rat ko bataya ke maine tum ko select kiya hai main usko bholne ki koshish karongi meri shadi tum se nahi hui to main mar jaungi or us ne ye bhi bataya ke wo mujh se jitna pyar karti hai utna he pyar wo us se bhi karti hai hamari engagement me bhi 2 month hain maine usko kaha mere sath khush ho na us ne han kaha hai lekin us ki halat thori kharab hai is liye ke usko us ki yad ati hai roti bhi hai pehle mujh se jis tarah khushi se achi achi batein karti thi ab us tarah nahi karti hai bas udas rehti hai or main pochta hun shadi karo gi to kehti hai han shadi tum se nahi hui to zinda mar jaunga or usko bhi bhula nahi sakti lekin koshish karongi to dosto ap please meri help karein mujhe kya karna chahiye kya wo usko bhol jaygi and shadi ke bad kya wo us ko bhula sakti hai ? ham ek dosre ko 2 years se jante hain aur us larke ko wo 3 month se janti hai lekin us ke dil me pyar hum dono ke liye ek jitna ho gaya ye bat nahi hai ke wo us ko mohabat karti hai wo mujhe bhi chahti hai mere bina jee bhi nahi sakti hai is liye to us ne mujhe select kiya hai lekin wo bohot confuse hai us ki yaado me roti hai ab wo us tarah khush nahi hai jese pehle hoti thi kya wo waqt ke sath theek ho jaygi pehle ki tarah or mujh se phir se theek tarah se bat karne lagegi ya nahi ap please meri help karein dosto main ek aese situation me hun jo soch soch kar thak gaya par kuch samajh nahi aya please meri help karein dosto main uski khushi chahta hun or us ne mujhe select kiya hai shadi bhi mujh se karna chahti hai lekin us ke dil me wo uski yadein usko rulati hain or uske dil me mera pyar bhi hai is waja se wo bohat confuse hai aur pareshan bhi ab mujhe kya karna chahiye ap me se koi aesa banda to hoga jo janta hoga ke shadi ke bad ya kuch time bad us ke dimagh o dil se wo nikal jayga ya kahin aese na shadi ke bad bhi yehi hal hua to hum dono ki life me depression ho sakti hai kyu ke main uski ye halat nahi dekh sakta ab ap dosto se guzarish hai ap he kuch help kar dein akhir kya karna chahiye aur agay kya ho sakta hai shukria" :( .
 

Cali

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"Hi dosto main zindagi ke ek aese situation par hon mujhe kuch samajh nahi aaraha hai ap dosto se guzarish hai please mujhe advise dein main kya karon"


"Main ek larki se behad pyar karta hun or wo bhi mujh se behad pyar karti hai hum 2 years se phone pe bat karte aa rahe hain wo meri relative hai 22 to 25 bar hum mil bhi chuke hain ek dosre ko hum ne samjha hai humari adatein bhi milti julti hain is tarah humen in 2 years me jo pyar ho gaya wo hum nahi bata sakte na wo mere bina jee sakti hai aur na main uske bina jee sakta hun lekin 3 month pehle meri gf ka koi relative hai us ko meri gf ka number mil gaya tha us ne 3 month se meri gf ko msgs kar ke kaha ke main ap se behad pyar karta hun wo aesi pyari pyari batein karta rehta tha meri gf se agay to main nahi janta ke un dono ke beech me kya kya batein hui lekin meri gf mujhe batati aarahi thi ke ye mujh se aesi batein karta hai maine apni gf ko bola tum usko jawab mat do bas ainda usko text mat karo to meri gf ne bola theek hai lekin 1 month bad mujhe pata chala ke meri gf ab tak us se batein karti hai or meri gf ko bhi ab wo pasand honey laga tha ab ek hafta hua hai maine meri gf ko bola mujhe acha nahi lagta hai usko msgs mat karo to meri gf ko thora bura laga wo thora alag behave karne lagi mujh se mujhe us waqt thora tenshan hua ke akhir kya ho raha hai ye sub kuch to 2 din pehle rat ko meri gf ne call kiya aese bat karte karte maine usko kaha ke ainda us insan ko msgs mat karna to wo ro pari aur rote hue bataya ke mujhe us se pyar ho gaya hai aese mano meri pao se zameen he nikal gai ho mujhe yakeen nahi ho raha tha ke meri gf ne ye bat kahi hai jis ke liye main pagal hun jo mujh se sath nibhane ki batein karti thi us ne mujhe aese bola hai phir wo bohat roi ghanta poora hum ne bat ki maine kaha agar tum uske sath khush ho to main tumhari khushi ki khatir tumhe main uske sath hamesha ke liye chor kar chala jaunga to us ne kaha main kya karon akhir mujhe us se kese pyar ho gaya kuch samjh nahi aaraha hai main karon bhi to kya karon maine kaha aese nahi ho sakta tum ko ek he insan select karna hoga to us ne kaha ke mujhe 1 din ka waqt chahiye main dil se soch kar bataongi to us ne agli rat ko bataya ke maine tum ko select kiya hai main usko bholne ki koshish karongi meri shadi tum se nahi hui to main mar jaungi or us ne ye bhi bataya ke wo mujh se jitna pyar karti hai utna he pyar wo us se bhi karti hai hamari engagement me bhi 2 month hain maine usko kaha mere sath khush ho na us ne han kaha hai lekin us ki halat thori kharab hai is liye ke usko us ki yad ati hai roti bhi hai pehle mujh se jis tarah khushi se achi achi batein karti thi ab us tarah nahi karti hai bas udas rehti hai or main pochta hun shadi karo gi to kehti hai han shadi tum se nahi hui to zinda mar jaunga or usko bhi bhula nahi sakti lekin koshish karongi to dosto ap please meri help karein mujhe kya karna chahiye kya wo usko bhol jaygi and shadi ke bad kya wo us ko bhula sakti hai ? ham ek dosre ko 2 years se jante hain aur us larke ko wo 3 month se janti hai lekin us ke dil me pyar hum dono ke liye ek jitna ho gaya ye bat nahi hai ke wo us ko mohabat karti hai wo mujhe bhi chahti hai mere bina jee bhi nahi sakti hai is liye to us ne mujhe select kiya hai lekin wo bohot confuse hai us ki yaado me roti hai ab wo us tarah khush nahi hai jese pehle hoti thi kya wo waqt ke sath theek ho jaygi pehle ki tarah or mujh se phir se theek tarah se bat karne lagegi ya nahi ap please meri help karein dosto main ek aese situation me hun jo soch soch kar thak gaya par kuch samajh nahi aya please meri help karein dosto main uski khushi chahta hun or us ne mujhe select kiya hai shadi bhi mujh se karna chahti hai lekin us ke dil me wo uski yadein usko rulati hain or uske dil me mera pyar bhi hai is waja se wo bohat confuse hai aur pareshan bhi ab mujhe kya karna chahiye ap me se koi aesa banda to hoga jo janta hoga ke shadi ke bad ya kuch time bad us ke dimagh o dil se wo nikal jayga ya kahin aese na shadi ke bad bhi yehi hal hua to hum dono ki life me depression ho sakti hai kyu ke main uski ye halat nahi dekh sakta ab ap dosto se guzarish hai ap he kuch help kar dein akhir kya karna chahiye aur agay kya ho sakta hai shukria" :( .
yepiyar ni begairti hy bs
behtr hy us se door hi raho ab
jo tmhare sath set ho gai na wo kisi k sath b set ho sakti hy to dil per bat lene ki zarort ni
ye nature hy mostly girl ki jahan palra bhari dekha tan tana kr usi tarf ho gi agr us k sath mazeed attach rehy to us sakta hy tm apna khud per control kho ya kuch esa wesa kr betho gy gussy me aur rat rat bhar jago gy uski yaad my roo gy aur kaho gy k mere sath esa q kiya to jawab tmhare umeedo k barakss mily ga to chill kro bajaye us k pechay bhangne
ye meri tarf se ek free and wise advise hy agay tmhari marzi
 

Cali

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"Hi dosto main zindagi ke ek aese situation par hon mujhe kuch samajh nahi aaraha hai ap dosto se guzarish hai please mujhe advise dein main kya karon"


"Main ek larki se behad pyar karta hun or wo bhi mujh se behad pyar karti hai hum 2 years se phone pe bat karte aa rahe hain wo meri relative hai 22 to 25 bar hum mil bhi chuke hain ek dosre ko hum ne samjha hai humari adatein bhi milti julti hain is tarah humen in 2 years me jo pyar ho gaya wo hum nahi bata sakte na wo mere bina jee sakti hai aur na main uske bina jee sakta hun lekin 3 month pehle meri gf ka koi relative hai us ko meri gf ka number mil gaya tha us ne 3 month se meri gf ko msgs kar ke kaha ke main ap se behad pyar karta hun wo aesi pyari pyari batein karta rehta tha meri gf se agay to main nahi janta ke un dono ke beech me kya kya batein hui lekin meri gf mujhe batati aarahi thi ke ye mujh se aesi batein karta hai maine apni gf ko bola tum usko jawab mat do bas ainda usko text mat karo to meri gf ne bola theek hai lekin 1 month bad mujhe pata chala ke meri gf ab tak us se batein karti hai or meri gf ko bhi ab wo pasand honey laga tha ab ek hafta hua hai maine meri gf ko bola mujhe acha nahi lagta hai usko msgs mat karo to meri gf ko thora bura laga wo thora alag behave karne lagi mujh se mujhe us waqt thora tenshan hua ke akhir kya ho raha hai ye sub kuch to 2 din pehle rat ko meri gf ne call kiya aese bat karte karte maine usko kaha ke ainda us insan ko msgs mat karna to wo ro pari aur rote hue bataya ke mujhe us se pyar ho gaya hai aese mano meri pao se zameen he nikal gai ho mujhe yakeen nahi ho raha tha ke meri gf ne ye bat kahi hai jis ke liye main pagal hun jo mujh se sath nibhane ki batein karti thi us ne mujhe aese bola hai phir wo bohat roi ghanta poora hum ne bat ki maine kaha agar tum uske sath khush ho to main tumhari khushi ki khatir tumhe main uske sath hamesha ke liye chor kar chala jaunga to us ne kaha main kya karon akhir mujhe us se kese pyar ho gaya kuch samjh nahi aaraha hai main karon bhi to kya karon maine kaha aese nahi ho sakta tum ko ek he insan select karna hoga to us ne kaha ke mujhe 1 din ka waqt chahiye main dil se soch kar bataongi to us ne agli rat ko bataya ke maine tum ko select kiya hai main usko bholne ki koshish karongi meri shadi tum se nahi hui to main mar jaungi or us ne ye bhi bataya ke wo mujh se jitna pyar karti hai utna he pyar wo us se bhi karti hai hamari engagement me bhi 2 month hain maine usko kaha mere sath khush ho na us ne han kaha hai lekin us ki halat thori kharab hai is liye ke usko us ki yad ati hai roti bhi hai pehle mujh se jis tarah khushi se achi achi batein karti thi ab us tarah nahi karti hai bas udas rehti hai or main pochta hun shadi karo gi to kehti hai han shadi tum se nahi hui to zinda mar jaunga or usko bhi bhula nahi sakti lekin koshish karongi to dosto ap please meri help karein mujhe kya karna chahiye kya wo usko bhol jaygi and shadi ke bad kya wo us ko bhula sakti hai ? ham ek dosre ko 2 years se jante hain aur us larke ko wo 3 month se janti hai lekin us ke dil me pyar hum dono ke liye ek jitna ho gaya ye bat nahi hai ke wo us ko mohabat karti hai wo mujhe bhi chahti hai mere bina jee bhi nahi sakti hai is liye to us ne mujhe select kiya hai lekin wo bohot confuse hai us ki yaado me roti hai ab wo us tarah khush nahi hai jese pehle hoti thi kya wo waqt ke sath theek ho jaygi pehle ki tarah or mujh se phir se theek tarah se bat karne lagegi ya nahi ap please meri help karein dosto main ek aese situation me hun jo soch soch kar thak gaya par kuch samajh nahi aya please meri help karein dosto main uski khushi chahta hun or us ne mujhe select kiya hai shadi bhi mujh se karna chahti hai lekin us ke dil me wo uski yadein usko rulati hain or uske dil me mera pyar bhi hai is waja se wo bohat confuse hai aur pareshan bhi ab mujhe kya karna chahiye ap me se koi aesa banda to hoga jo janta hoga ke shadi ke bad ya kuch time bad us ke dimagh o dil se wo nikal jayga ya kahin aese na shadi ke bad bhi yehi hal hua to hum dono ki life me depression ho sakti hai kyu ke main uski ye halat nahi dekh sakta ab ap dosto se guzarish hai ap he kuch help kar dein akhir kya karna chahiye aur agay kya ho sakta hai shukria" :( .
ho sakta hy kal ko yehi larki tmhari hi gair majoodgi my us se mil q k relative to hy hi aur jab tm pocho gy k kia krne aya to jawab wo mujhe us ki yaad aa rahi thi to milne aa gya behtr hy abi sudhar jao q k shadi k bad jo tmhari shamat ho gi tmne socha b ni hoga k esa b ho sakta hy roz larai roz pitai
ek hi baat suna kro gy tum pehly jesy ni rahy tmne to kaha tha ye kro ga wo kro ga
meri hi qismat kharab thi bla blaa shak shak aur phr talaaq
 

javedali1211

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wo mujh se bhi mohabat karti hai aur main uske bina nahi jee sakta main bas itna poch raha hun kya wo shadi ke bad set ho jaygi and ek ladki kisi pyar ko shadi ke bad bhula sakti hai ?
 

Aliean

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wo mujh se bhi mohabat karti hai aur main uske bina nahi jee sakta main bas itna poch raha hun kya wo shadi ke bad set ho jaygi and ek ladki kisi pyar ko shadi ke bad bhula sakti hai ?
(clapping)hihihii
hihiih
hihihi
hihihihi
hihiih
hihii
hihihi
hihi
yeh hy jawab
 

Aliean

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wo mujh se bhi mohabat karti hai aur main uske bina nahi jee sakta main bas itna poch raha hun kya wo shadi ke bad set ho jaygi and ek ladki kisi pyar ko shadi ke bad bhula sakti hai ?
(clapping)hihihii
hihiih
hihihi
hihihihi
hihiih
hihii
hihihi
hihi
yeh hy jawab
 

Aliean

Mann'Chala ^^ !-!@!)G0nE/
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Jan 12, 2016
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Albasuzaneade
wo mujh se bhi mohabat karti hai aur main uske bina nahi jee sakta main bas itna poch raha hun kya wo shadi ke bad set ho jaygi and ek ladki kisi pyar ko shadi ke bad bhula sakti hai ?
(clapping)hihihii
hihiih
hihihi
hihihihi
hihiih
hihii
hihihi
hihi
yeh hy jawab
 

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wo mujh se bhi mohabat karti hai aur main uske bina nahi jee sakta main bas itna poch raha hun kya wo shadi ke bad set ho jaygi and ek ladki kisi pyar ko shadi ke bad bhula sakti hai ?
Islamic point of view se :-
Asal Muhabbat hi to shadi ke baad hoti hai Jis main Allah ki taraf se Inamaat bhi milte hain
Shadi se pehly ki Muhabbat to azaab ka sabab hai Na mehram se

Dunyawi Point of view se :-
Muhabbat hamesha dil main rehti hai mgr Muhabbat agar aap ki nazar main Husool ka naam hai to pher ghalat hai
Muhabbat ka matlab hai kisi ko itna chahna keh us ki khushiyaan hi sab kuch hona aap keliye
agar aap kisi larki se muhabbat karte ho to usay apne ghar main khush rehne do aur usay dua ho keh wo hamesha khush rahe yahi asal muhabbat hai us soorat main jab aap ki shadi un se nahi hoti aur agar shadi karli to pher BV se muhabbat aur unka khayal rakhna aap ko jannat bhi le ja sakta hai :)
 
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