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Pata nhi k aisi thred pehle b ban chuki hai k nhi, kher agher ban chuki hai pehle to mjhe btane ki zarorat nhi {(haha})

Jesa k sab jante hein aik Muslim larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi nhi kar skti, jab k larka kar skta hai ? Aisa kyun hai akhir ? kia Muslim larki ko ijazat nhi apni marzi se shaadi karne ki? kia uski pasand , na pasand zara b point nhi rkhti??

Meine Norway mein bht se aise parents dekhen hein, jinki larki agehr kisi non muslim se shaadi krna chahe ya larka apni ZAAT ka na ho to larki ko Pakistan le ja kar wahan kisi larke se shaaadi kra di jati hai, aisa kyun hai akhir ? religion jisse log AMAN ka naam dete hein wo aik nhi na jane kitnio ki life barbaad kr deta hai? just coz of a Muslim girl can't marry a non muslim ?

Mujhe to aj tak aik solid reason nhi smjh ayi k why can't a Muslim girl marryyyyy a non-muslim ? Jab k larka kar skta hai to larki kyun nhi ?? Meine to ye b suna hai k larka b sirf ussi larki se shaadi kar skta hai jo Islam ki 4 kitabon mein se kisi aik per Imaan rakhti ho, ab pta nhi ye baat kahan tk sach hai ?{(thinkg)}

To kher mera question yahan ye hai k larki kyun nhi kisi non-muslim se shaadi kar skti ? Agehr larki ko nhi ijazat to larkon ko kyun hai fir ?Or agehr aik Muslim larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi krna chahe to us sorat-e-haal mein kia karna chahiye??
 

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Asalam-o-Alaykum

Pata nhi k aisi thred pehle b ban chuki hai k nhi, kher agher ban chuki hai pehle to mjhe btane ki zarorat nhi {(haha})

Jesa k sab jante hein aik Muslim larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi nhi kar skti, jab k larka kar skta hai ? Aisa kyun hai akhir ? kia Muslim larki ko ijazat nhi apni marzi se shaadi karne ki? kia uski pasand , na pasand zara b point nhi rkhti??

Meine Norway mein bht se aise parents dekhen hein, jinki larki agehr kisi non muslim se shaadi krna chahe ya larka apni ZAAT ka na ho to larki ko Pakistan le ja kar wahan kisi larke se shaaadi kra di jati hai, aisa kyun hai akhir ? religion jisse log AMAN ka naam dete hein wo aik nhi na jane kitnio ki life barbaad kr deta hai? just coz of a Muslim girl can't marry a non muslim ?

Mujhe to aj tak aik solid reason nhi smjh ayi k why can't a Muslim girl marryyyyy a non-muslim ? Jab k larka kar skta hai to larki kyun nhi ?? Meine to ye b suna hai k larka b sirf ussi larki se shaadi kar skta hai jo Islam ki 4 kitabon mein se kisi aik per Imaan rakhti ho, ab pta nhi ye baat kahan tk sach hai ?{(thinkg)}

To kher mera question yahan ye hai k larki kyun nhi kisi non-muslim se shaadi kar skti ? Agehr larki ko nhi ijazat to larkon ko kyun hai fir ?Or agehr aik Muslim larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi krna chahe to us sorat-e-haal mein kia karna chahiye??
وعلیکم السلام
میری بہن آپ کے ذہن میں یہ سوال کیوں اٹھا اس میں آپ کا قصور نہیں معاشرے کا قصور ہے
بہرحال اسلام میں غیر مسلم لڑکے اور لڑکی سے شادی کی اجازت نہیں
صرف اہل کتاب لڑکی سے شادی کرسکتے ہیں یہ بات اپنے ذہن میں درست کرلیں
لڑکا اہل کتاب لڑکی سے شادی کرسکتا ہے لیکن لڑکی اہل کتاب لڑکے سے شادی نہیں کرسکتی ،

گھر کا سربراہ مرد ہوتا ہے اور اس کی نسل بھی مرد سے چلتی ہے جو خاندان وجود پائے گا وہ دراصل مرد ہی کے نام سے آگے بڑھے گا عورت کے نام سے نہیں ، مرد اگر مسلم ہوگا تو قانونا اس کے بچے مسلم کہلائیں گے اور اگر مرد غیر مسلم ہوگا تو قانونا اس کی اولاد غیر مسلم تصور کی جائے گی
ایسے بہت سے مسائل ہیں جس کی وجہ سے اسلام نے صرف اہل کتاب لڑکی سے نکاح کی اجازت دی ہے
کچھ مسائل انفرادی زندگی سے تعلق رکھتے ہیں کچھ مسائل کا تعلق اجتماعیت سے ہوتا ہے
انفرادی معاملے میں تو آپ کو حق ہے اپنی پسند ناپسد لیکن شادی ایک اجتماعی مسلہ ہے اس ایک خاندان جنم لیتا ہے اور یہ ریاست کا ایک اجتماعی معاملہ ہے
اگر ہر کوئی آپ کی طرح سوچنے لگے اور ریاست میں اسے اپنی سوچ پر من مانی کی اجازت دے دی جائے تو اجتماعیت ختم ہوجاتی ہیں
مثال کے طور پر تمام مذاہب میں زنا حرام ہے اگر کوئی کہے میں زنا کوں گا میری مرضی یہ میری پسند ہے تو کیا اسے اجازت دے دی جائے گی
اگر مجھے چوری کرنا پسند ہے اور میں چوری کرتا ہوں تو کیا مجھے اس کی اجازت ہوگی۔
بہرحال میری بہن آپ مسلمان ہیں تو آپ کو اپنے دین اسلام پر عمل کرنا چاہئے ضروری نہیں کہ اسلام کا ہر عمل سمجھ میں آئے تو عمل کرنا چاہئے ورنہ نہیں
ہمیں اپنی عقل کو قرآن و سنت کے ظابع کرنا چاہئے نہ کہ قرآن و سنت کو اپنی عقل طابع کرنا چاہئے
ایسے مسائل علماء سے معلوم کرنے ہوتے ہیں
اللہ تعالی ہمیں سمجھ نصیب فرمائے
 

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وعلیکم السلام
میری بہن آپ کے ذہن میں یہ سوال کیوں اٹھا اس میں آپ کا قصور نہیں معاشرے کا قصور ہے
بہرحال اسلام میں غیر مسلم لڑکے اور لڑکی سے شادی کی اجازت نہیں
صرف اہل کتاب لڑکی سے شادی کرسکتے ہیں یہ بات اپنے ذہن میں درست کرلیں
لڑکا اہل کتاب لڑکی سے شادی کرسکتا ہے لیکن لڑکی اہل کتاب لڑکے سے شادی نہیں کرسکتی ،

گھر کا سربراہ مرد ہوتا ہے اور اس کی نسل بھی مرد سے چلتی ہے جو خاندان وجود پائے گا وہ دراصل مرد ہی کے نام سے آگے بڑھے گا عورت کے نام سے نہیں ، مرد اگر مسلم ہوگا تو قانونا اس کے بچے مسلم کہلائیں گے اور اگر مرد غیر مسلم ہوگا تو قانونا اس کی اولاد غیر مسلم تصور کی جائے گی
ایسے بہت سے مسائل ہیں جس کی وجہ سے اسلام نے صرف اہل کتاب لڑکی سے نکاح کی اجازت دی ہے
کچھ مسائل انفرادی زندگی سے تعلق رکھتے ہیں کچھ مسائل کا تعلق اجتماعیت سے ہوتا ہے
انفرادی معاملے میں تو آپ کو حق ہے اپنی پسند ناپسد لیکن شادی ایک اجتماعی مسلہ ہے اس ایک خاندان جنم لیتا ہے اور یہ ریاست کا ایک اجتماعی معاملہ ہے
اگر ہر کوئی آپ کی طرح سوچنے لگے اور ریاست میں اسے اپنی سوچ پر من مانی کی اجازت دے دی جائے تو اجتماعیت ختم ہوجاتی ہیں
مثال کے طور پر تمام مذاہب میں زنا حرام ہے اگر کوئی کہے میں زنا کوں گا میری مرضی یہ میری پسند ہے تو کیا اسے اجازت دے دی جائے گی
اگر مجھے چوری کرنا پسند ہے اور میں چوری کرتا ہوں تو کیا مجھے اس کی اجازت ہوگی۔
بہرحال میری بہن آپ مسلمان ہیں تو آپ کو اپنے دین اسلام پر عمل کرنا چاہئے ضروری نہیں کہ اسلام کا ہر عمل سمجھ میں آئے تو عمل کرنا چاہئے ورنہ نہیں
ہمیں اپنی عقل کو قرآن و سنت کے ظابع کرنا چاہئے نہ کہ قرآن و سنت کو اپنی عقل طابع کرنا چاہئے
ایسے مسائل علماء سے معلوم کرنے ہوتے ہیں
اللہ تعالی ہمیں سمجھ نصیب فرمائے
hmmmm acha to sirf is liye k age ki nasal MUSALMAN nhi kehlayi jayegi to is liye larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi nhi kr skti ??{(thinkg)} Or agher larki krna chahe kisi non-muslim se to uski zabardasti shaadi kisi or se kra do or do zindaagiyan barbaad kr do sirf is liye k age ki nasal Musalman nhi kehlayi jayegi ? {(thinkg)} Baat pasand ya na pasand ki nhi yahan, ab agher koi larki kisi non.muslim se shaadi krna chahe to us haal meinn kia krna hoga haaan ? siwaye uski zabardasti shaadi kisi or se kra dene k... Or bro ye to koi point na hoya k larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi kr leeee to age ki nasal Musalman nhi kehlayi jayegi to usse kisi b ghadde k sath band do ?? Hum larkian hain koi nasal barane ki machine nhi... {(nix)}
 
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Mein ye nhi keh ri bro k ap ne jo kaha wo galat hai, per aik baar sochiye to sehi k sirf is liye k age ki nasal Musalman nhi kehlayegi to uski shaadi is liye kisi Muslim se he krao?? :S
 
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Hmm i think isme hum kisi relign ko boora nahi keh rhee pr koi wjaah bhi to samj nhi aa rhii ki aisa kyun nhi kar skti ek larki sirf isliye ki fir wo ek muslim nhi kisi aur relign ke bache ko birht degi to isse kya hoga jo muslim bby ayega wo bhi khuda ki marji se ayega jo doosra ayega wo bhi khuda ki mrji se isliye je population jyaada karne kii wjaah me EK LARKI ki hi zindgi ko kyuun aage kiya ja rha hai .. Ek larka kisi non muslim se shadi karke bache kre wo muslim ho to sabhi khush ek larki apni marji see apne pyaar se ek insan se jo ki sabh ki tra ek hi rabb ka banda hai uske sath rehna chahe to wo galt sirf isliye ki usse Muslim nasal aage nhi bregi :s
 
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hmmmm acha to sirf is liye k age ki nasal MUSALMAN nhi kehlayi jayegi to is liye larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi nhi kr skti ??{(thinkg)} Or agher larki krna chahe kisi non-muslim se to uski zabardasti shaadi kisi or se kra do or do zindaagiyan barbaad kr do sirf is liye k age ki nasal Musalman nhi kehlayi jayegi ? {(thinkg)} Baat pasand ya na pasand ki nhi yahan, ab agher koi larki kisi non.muslim se shaadi krna chahe to us haal meinn kia krna hoga haaan ? siwaye uski zabardasti shaadi kisi or se kra dene k... Or bro ye to koi point na hoya k larki kisi non-muslim se shaadi kr leeee to age ki nasal Musalman nhi kehlayi jayegi to usse kisi b ghadde k sath band do ?? Hum larkian hain koi nasal barane ki machine nhi... {(nix)}
Look i know what you are talking about. As matter of fact people who force their girls to mary inside family it isn't because of religion. It is because they have created their own man made religions. You said about marrying girl in Pakistan. They don't marry their girls in Pakistan because of Islam but because of their ancestors belief.Majority of People living outside have no idea what Islam is.?
Can i Ask something. Are you muslim?

 
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Look i know what you are talking about. As matter of fact people who force their girls to mary inside family it isn't because of religion. It is because they have created their own man made religions. You said about marrying girl in Pakistan. They don't marry their girls in Pakistan because of Islam but because of their ancestors belief.Majority of People living outside have no idea what Islam is.?
Can i Ask something. Are you muslim?

yeah i know its cozz of ZAAT PAAT too, but y only girls have to suffer all dis ???Boys can marry whoever they want, but why not girls ? and da reason behind all dis is that if a Muslim girl marrys a non-muslim to age ki nasal Musalman nhi hogi ? oh it doesnt makes a senseee seriouslyy.

kia Muslim girls duniya mein Islam ki population barhane k liye ayi hain ?? Agher Allah Ta'la ko nhi pasand kisi muslim larki ka non-muslim se shaadi krna to fir unho ne non-Muslim bnaye he kyun ?? Agher sbko paida krne waleeeeee is jahan ke khaliq-o-malik Allah Ta'la hain, hum sab ussi k bande hein to fir kyun hum insaano mein hein ye frk ? or sirf is liye non-muslim se Muslim girls shaadi na kren kk age ki nasal Muslim nhi hogi ?? ye b koi baat hoyii huhhh Agher positiv tareeqe se is baat ko dkeha jaye to agehr Musalman larki ki shaaadi kisi non-muslim se hoti hai to who knows bad mein larka Musalman ho jaye Islam ko jaan kar ? to fir ? {(thinkg)}
 

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yeah i know its cozz of ZAAT PAAT too, but y only girls have to suffer all dis ???Boys can marry whoever they want, but why not girls ? and da reason behind all dis is that if a Muslim girl marrys a non-muslim to age ki nasal Musalman nhi hogi ? oh it doesnt makes a senseee seriouslyy.

Yes i agree it isn't good thing, Forgive ignorance. Ignorance isn't crime. Just tell me are you muslim? Do you believe in Quran.
kia Muslim girls duniya mein Islam ki population barhane k liye ayi hain ?? Agher Allah Ta'la ko nhi pasand kisi muslim larki ka non-muslim se shaadi krna to fir unho ne non-Muslim bnaye he kyun ?? Agher sbko paida krne waleeeeee is jahan ke khaliq-o-malik Allah Ta'la hain, hum sab ussi k bande hein to fir kyun hum insaano mein hein ye frk ? or sirf is liye non-muslim se Muslim girls shaadi na kren kk age ki nasal Muslim nhi hogi ?? ye b koi baat hoyii huhhh Agher positiv tareeqe se is baat ko dkeha jaye to agehr Musalman larki ki shaaadi kisi non-muslim se hoti hai to who knows bad mein larka Musalman ho jaye Islam ko jaan kar ? to fir ? {(thinkg)}


Yes you are right women aren't to increase population? Please just tell
Are you muslim? if you are than you also believe in quran.
Please answer in yes or no

 

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ahaaan nice i think app ko app ki baat ka jawab mill gayaa hai .. iss leyai muj ko bolnai ki zarorat nahi main rehan bhai ki baat say agree karoo ga
 
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Yes i agree it isn't good thing, Forgive ignorance. Ignorance isn't crime. Just tell me are you muslim? Do you believe in Quran.


Yes you are right women aren't to increase population? Please just tell
Are you muslim? if you are than you also believe in quran.
Please answer in yes or no

ji ji Muslim hon bt it doesnt have any link wid my question :s i am just asking y cant a Muslim girl marry a non-muslim, and u all are saying its coz of nasal and all dat ? It sounds rediculous to meeee not only for mee dereee wud b manyyy moreeeeeeeeee like meee jo aisaa sochte hein... and i dun think its written in Quran k just coz of nasal a Muslim girl can't marry a non-muslim ? {(thinkg)} Its just a man made rule, only to increase population in Islam, huh i have seen many Muslim girls who have married a non-muslim guy and they are living happily to is k bare mein kia kehna chahenge??
 
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ahaaan nice i think app ko app ki baat ka jawab mill gayaa hai .. iss leyai muj ko bolnai ki zarorat nahi main rehan bhai ki baat say agree karoo ga
haha nah i havent got any solid reason yet :p Everyone here is saying dat its just coz of nasal, k age ki population wudnt be Muslim so dats y a Muslim girl is not allowed to marry a non-muslim? {(thinkg)} kia larkiyan fir Islam ko age promote krne ki machine hain? Unhe apni he lyf ka itna ahem faisla karne ki he ijazat nhi, or agehr she wants to marry a non-muslim guy to usse ye keh do k its not allowed in Islam and usko kisi or k palle band do ?? Is it written in Quran ? jiski wajah se aik nhi na jane kitni zindagiyan barbaad ho jati hain :s
 

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ji ji Muslim hon bt it doesnt have any link wid my question :s i am just asking y cant a Muslim girl marry a non-muslim, and u all are saying its coz of nasal and all dat ? It sounds rediculous to meeee not only for mee dereee wud b manyyy moreeeeeeeeee like meee jo aisaa sochte hein... and i dun think its written in Quran k just coz of nasal a Muslim girl can't marry a non-muslim ?
That's Order of Your God in which you believe. If you think your god is unjust with human nature than why you don't choose another god. I can't understand you being a muslim propagating something against Islam and aginst message of Quran. Same is case of christian and Jews. If you really think that Islam is bad why you lebel yourself muslim.

The general rule of Islam is that Muslims should marry Muslims. A Muslim male or female should not marry a non-Muslim male or female. Allah Almighty says: “ Wed not idolatresses till they believe; for lo! a believing bondwoman is better than an idolatress though she please you; and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe, for lo! a believing slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the Fire, and Allah inviteth unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His grace, and expoundeth thus His revelations to mankind that haply they may remember.” (Al-Baqarah: 221)

The only exception is given to Muslim men who are allowed to marry the girls from among the People of the Book. Allah Almighty says: “This day are (all) good things made lawful for you. The food of those who have received the Scripture is lawful for you, and your food is lawful for them. And so are the virtuous women of the believers and the virtuous women of those who received the Scripture before you (lawful for you) when ye give them their marriage portions and live with them in honor, not in fornication, nor taking them as secret concubines. Whoso denieth the faith, his work is vain and he will be among the losers in the Hereafter.” (Al-Ma’dah: 5)

I can't understand why people are passenger of two boats. On one hand they wish house in heaven on the other hand the can't follow their God.


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Its just a man made rule, only to increase population in Islam, huh i have seen many Muslim girls who have married a non-muslim guy and they are living happily to is k bare mein kia kehna chahenge??
Its order of your God in Quran. Why you can't understand{(wacko)}{(wacko)}
You should follow your God so he will give you house in heaven.
 
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what did u mean by other God ? Are dere many Gods ruling da world ? how silly :s

or ye inni mushkil mushkil English kahan se copy paste ki mere to opr se guzr gyi hai :p

So u r saying dat its written in Quran bt still wats reason behind it ? Is it dat k nasal fir Musalman nhi hoyegi ?:s and da house in heven made me laugh, jeeteee jee kisi or k palle band jaoooo or mar mar kar jiyo k age ja kar heaven millegi {(nea)} Mujhe to nhi lagta k millegi non-muslims b to Allah Ta'la ne he bnaye hein wo b ussi rabb k he bande hein naaa :s

kher ab ye b bta do k if a girl wants to marry a non-muslim guy so wat shud she do ?? {(thinkg)}
 
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what did u mean by other God ? Are dere many Gods ruling da world ? how silly :s
I mean there are lot of gods other than Islam. Like christian god or Like Jews god or Like Hindu god. If you don't like God than you should become atheist. Atheist don't believe in God because they think God is unjust. Ufff my Brain{(wacko)}{(wacko)}

or ye inni mushkil mushkil English kahan se copy paste ki mere to opr se guzr gyi hai :p
They are verses of Quran showing order of your God. Why you don't argue with your God and asked him why he ordered girls to marry outside of their religion?

So u r saying dat its written in Quran bt still wats reason behind it ? Is it dat k nasal fir Musalman nhi hoyegi ?:s and da house in heven made me laugh, jeeteee jee kisi or k palle band jaoooo or mar mar kar jiyo k age ja kar heaven millegi {(nea)} Mujhe to nhi lagta k millegi non-muslims b to Allah Ta'la ne he bnaye hein wo b ussi rabb k he bande hein naaa :s
I have no reasons for that, and i am sure you will reject every reason? and what type of muslim you are you don't know what is written in Quran?

kher ab ye b bta do k if a girl wants to marry a non-muslim guy so wat shud she do ?? {(thinkg)}
You should Leave the religion? That's simple answer.

There are two option
1. Leave your Desires
2. Follow your Desires

It is your desire to marry a non muslim or non believer . But that isn't desire of your God.
If you follow your desires you have to reject desires of your god in which you believe.
Simple answer is just follow your desires. You will see its end.

If religion is unjust why still you r clinging to it. uffffff my brain is dead {(wacko)}
 
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