Students' Counseling (question Of The Week 19th October 2012)!

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well bht acha sawal ha.....
Hoor actully baat ye ha k counseling pakistan me 100 me se shayed 5% horai ha
wo bht incident ki tarhan.....
k agr apko koi acha teacher mil jae.....
ache teacher se mtlb Professional ho.... ese nai k bs 1/2 hr ki class me time dekhta rahy....
phr wo apni zimedari pori kr raha hota ha step by step guidance k sath.....

bt hum bat krty hain remaining 95% ki
counseling ki zarorat mere khyal me after primary n before secondry......
is level pe hoti ha......

bcz primary me ap student ki abilities ko uske futur profession se judge nai kr sakty.
n before secondary apko somehow pata chal jata ha.......
bt ye initial counseling ho gi......
best counseling after metric ho gi.

well me ne counseling ko as a subject parha ha during masters.....
iski starting hi ese hoti ha k mentorship, freindship nai ha......
dont be friend of your student.......
to ap andaza laga sakty ho k kis haad tk honi chahye.......

3rd baat ye ha k sirf teachers responsible nai han iske lye.....
ghar me parents ya or log....kbhi teachers se bhi imprtnt hoty hain


bt aj kal ho ye raha ha k parents bachon ko pehly school n thn coaching bhej k samajhty hain farz ada kr rahy hain
n schools, coachings ka ye haal ha k unke lye important wo paisy hain jo each mnth unhin mil jaty hain

thats it.[DOUBLEPOST=1351094154][/DOUBLEPOST]well said @Janan
 

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Students ko her level pe guidelines ki zarorat hoti hai.....
* Parents aur bary jo hun ghar main un ko chahiay k students ko complete guidelines dain (agar phary likhy hu tu)...
* Humary School level pe students ko koi b guideline nai de jati...students ko totay bana k kitabain yaad karwa de jati hai laiken jab students college level pe puhunchty hain tu koi pata nai hota k kon se course mai enroll hona hai aur kiun...bas yahe pata hota hai k engineer banna hai tu maths aur dr. tu biology parhne hai .
*College level pe students ko guideline tu de jati hai laiken buhat kam.... engineering, computer science, medical , BBA aur chand courses jo mai ne dekha hai students ko bas inhe ka pata hota hai....
In short Pakistan main students ko kisi b level pe koi guideline nai milte.... jis ki wajha se humesha he students confuse rehty hain bechary....
Sab se bari musibat yeh hai k loug misguide b karty hain.. for example tum ne palan board mai kiun admission liya wahan number nai atay.. tum ne palan course kiun liya agay koi scope he nai..... mai apni baat karun tu main ne Peshawar PAF college mai admission liya tha FSC main jo k Federal Board tha Mujy lougun ne yahe kaha k federal board mai number nai atay kiun liya admission mujy itna misguide aur discourage kiya gya k mai ne college chor dya aur ek saal zaya hu gya....


Yahan UK main jo main ne dekha hai.....
College level pe Course leader (Head Master) hota hai wo baqaida Presentations deta hai. wo kafi courses k bary mai bata dety hain aur enroll hony k process ko b samjha dety hain jis ki wajha se buhat asani hu jati hai...

.. us k ilawa Universities se Loug atay hain aur classes laity hain aur college mai her saal ek week hota hai k kafi universities waly college mai atay hain aur student wahan ja k her course k bary mai info lety hain....baqi baad main likh dun ga... :)
very very well said :-bd[DOUBLEPOST=1351135543][/DOUBLEPOST]
oh :oops:
ap ny fsc mai kn sa subject rkha tha na fsc k baad kn sa sub rkha ap ny :rolleyes:
FSC pre-medical ki student thi main,,entry test ki %age mila k i was not qualified for admission in medical college!
us k baad my mind was blank k kia karna hay,,, q k bilkul bhi ye situation ka andaza nhi tha,,,
To pehle main BSc honors ka socha,,phir d-pharmacy ka,phir simple BSC aur sochne samajhne may h aik saal zaya hua,,
itni irritation thi aur bohat disappointment k ab koi field maire liye hay hi nhii,,,us k baad maine kabhi regular college ya uni join hi nhi ki,,
BA punjab college se as a private student kiya ghar pe hi,,phir sab bole bas Ba kaafi hay main bhi chup ho gai den kisi waja se ghair mutawaqqa tor e hi MBa may aa gai wo bhi online :eek: can u imagine main kis tara zigzag ghumi hun fields selection may ;))
but noe satisified hun k MBa achi field thi and ab complete ho chukka hay!

Lakin phir bhi jo waqt zaya hua jo tension hui thats was damaging,,to bachon ko wo nhi honi chahiye,,,
raasta clear hona chahiye unhe samajh honi chahiye k kon kon se alternatie ways hain un k saamne jinhe wo quickly choose kar sakain![DOUBLEPOST=1351135736][/DOUBLEPOST]
well bht acha sawal ha.....
Hoor actully baat ye ha k counseling pakistan me 100 me se shayed 5% horai ha
wo bht incident ki tarhan.....
k agr apko koi acha teacher mil jae.....
ache teacher se mtlb Professional ho.... ese nai k bs 1/2 hr ki class me time dekhta rahy....
phr wo apni zimedari pori kr raha hota ha step by step guidance k sath.....

bt hum bat krty hain remaining 95% ki
counseling ki zarorat mere khyal me after primary n before secondry......
is level pe hoti ha......

bcz primary me ap student ki abilities ko uske futur profession se judge nai kr sakty.
n before secondary apko somehow pata chal jata ha.......
bt ye initial counseling ho gi......
best counseling after metric ho gi.

well me ne counseling ko as a subject parha ha during masters.....
iski starting hi ese hoti ha k mentorship, freindship nai ha......
dont be friend of your student.......
to ap andaza laga sakty ho k kis haad tk honi chahye.......

3rd baat ye ha k sirf teachers responsible nai han iske lye.....
ghar me parents ya or log....kbhi teachers se bhi imprtnt hoty hain


bt aj kal ho ye raha ha k parents bachon ko pehly school n thn coaching bhej k samajhty hain farz ada kr rahy hain
n schools, coachings ka ye haal ha k unke lye important wo paisy hain jo each mnth unhin mil jaty hain

thats it.[DOUBLEPOST=1351094154][/DOUBLEPOST]well said @Janan
ahaaan well said @Bela
ye to nice k aap ne counseling as a subject parha hay phir to aap se mufeeed mashware mil sakte hain yahan sabko :p:-bd
 
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ahaaan well said @Bela
ye to nice k aap ne counseling as a subject parha hay phir to aap se mufeeed mashware mil sakte hain yahan sabko :p:-bd
hmm agr kisi ko chahye to sure...... lakn jb humare pas ye subject aya tha to humin herat k sath sath hansi ai k ye bhi koi subjct ha n is me hoga kya....
bt jese jese pocceed kia to pata chala k its an important one......
 
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hmm agr kisi ko chahye to sure...... lakn jb humare pas ye subject aya tha to humin herat k sath sath hansi ai k ye bhi koi subjct ha n is me hoga kya....
bt jese jese pocceed kia to pata chala k its an important one......
True! :)
 
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very very well said :-bd[DOUBLEPOST=1351135543][/DOUBLEPOST]
FSC pre-medical ki student thi main,,entry test ki %age mila k i was not qualified for admission in medical college!
us k baad my mind was blank k kia karna hay,,, q k bilkul bhi ye situation ka andaza nhi tha,,,
To pehle main BSc honors ka socha,,phir d-pharmacy ka,phir simple BSC aur sochne samajhne may h aik saal zaya hua,,
itni irritation thi aur bohat disappointment k ab koi field maire liye hay hi nhii,,,us k baad maine kabhi regular college ya uni join hi nhi ki,,
BA punjab college se as a private student kiya ghar pe hi,,phir sab bole bas Ba kaafi hay main bhi chup ho gai den kisi waja se ghair mutawaqqa tor e hi MBa may aa gai wo bhi online :eek: can u imagine main kis tara zigzag ghumi hun fields selection may ;))
but noe satisified hun k MBa achi field thi and ab complete ho chukka hay!

Lakin phir bhi jo waqt zaya hua jo tension hui thats was damaging,,to bachon ko wo nhi honi chahiye,,,
raasta clear hona chahiye unhe samajh honi chahiye k kon kon se alternatie ways hain un k saamne jinhe wo quickly choose kar sakain![DOUBLEPOST=1351135736][/DOUBLEPOST]
ahaaan well said @Bela
ye to nice k aap ne counseling as a subject parha hay phir to aap se mufeeed mashware mil sakte hain yahan sabko :p:-bd
u ki stuation bhi bilkul meri tarha bt differnce ya hy k fsc mai may ny pre-medical liya bohat socha kia karo agy bcz % nhi thi medical collge ya uni mai adm ho jay then ab mai commerce ki fiel mai a gyi ho kisi sy mashwara bhi nhi liya bs b.com k socha or isi mai guss gyi nd agy agr % achi hoi to KU sy InshAllah masters karogi agr nhi ayi to maths mai masters hi kar lo gi :D

u to waqi mai zig zag ki tarha ghomi MBA kis subject mai kya hy u ny ?
 
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u ki stuation bhi bilkul meri tarha bt differnce ya hy k fsc mai may ny pre-medical liya bohat socha kia karo agy bcz % nhi thi medical collge ya uni mai adm ho jay then ab mai commerce ki fiel mai a gyi ho kisi sy mashwara bhi nhi liya bs b.com k socha or isi mai guss gyi nd agy agr % achi hoi to KU sy InshAllah masters karogi agr nhi ayi to maths mai masters hi kar lo gi :D

u to waqi mai zig zag ki tarha ghomi MBA kis subject mai kya hy u ny ?
true :p

MBA bhi VU se kar k phassi koi subject nhi chora unho ne jo nhi parhaya ;)

Specialization MIS may ki (management information system) muje sirf Management hi samajh aayi Info system awain gya ;)) :p
eco,accounting,marketing,computer,programming,management(in every sem) communication,IT,networking etc ye sab karwaye 4 sem may!
 
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mai collge jati ho wo collge KU sy affitaved hy direct uni nhi jati KU mai b.com 4 yrs k hota hy nad college sy 2 yr k :oops:
khty hy MBA karna bohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat muskil hy :s
 

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mai collge jati ho wo collge KU sy affitaved hy direct uni nhi jati KU mai b.com 4 yrs k hota hy nad college sy 2 yr k :oops:
khty hy MBA karna bohaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat muskil hy :s
MBA may kia mushkil hay :s

Regular to bilkul bhi mushkil nhi hoga aur aap already B.com kar chukki ho phir to bohat hi easy rhega :-bd

Maine bhai ki B.com ki books dekhi thi MBA se ziada mushkil to wo hain ;))
 
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MBA may kia mushkil hay :s

Regular to bilkul bhi mushkil nhi hoga aur aap already B.com kar chukki ho phir to bohat hi easy rhega :-bd

Maine bhai ki B.com ki books dekhi thi MBA se ziada mushkil to wo hain ;))
mai abhi b.co m kar rhi ho :(( kar chuki nhi :s last year chal rha hy mera b.com mai nad b.com part 1 mai meri supply ayi thi {}{r54[DOUBLEPOST=1351158199][/DOUBLEPOST]suna hy k MBA muskil hota hy :s ab khud karo gi to pata chaly ga :p
 
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mai abhi b.co m kar rhi ho :(( kar chuki nhi :s last year chal rha hy mera b.com mai nad b.com part 1 mai meri supply ayi thi {}{r54[DOUBLEPOST=1351158199][/DOUBLEPOST]suna hy k MBA muskil hota hy :s ab khud karo gi to pata chaly ga :p
B.com k kis subject may suply aayi :s

hmmye to apne interest pe hoga,,,par truely speaking muje MBA FSc se bohat ziada aasan lagga :phala k maine simple Ba with sociology kiya tha!

Mushkil nhi hay MBa awain na daro aap interesting hay {()|asf
 
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B.com k kis subject may suply aayi :s

hmmye to apne interest pe hoga,,,par truely speaking muje MBA FSc se bohat ziada aasan lagga :phala k maine simple Ba with sociology kiya tha!

Mushkil nhi hay MBa awain na daro aap interesting hay {()|asf
accountingg {(cray)} (dimagh kharab or pagal kar dyny wala subject {(crusing)})

u ny kaha fir to easy hi hoga naa {}{43r5
 

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accountingg {(cray)} (dimagh kharab or pagal kar dyny wala subject {(crusing)})

u ny kaha fir to easy hi hoga naa {}{43r5
haan meko bhi accounting buri lagti hay ,,main bhi accounting may 67% mushkil se le paayi thi :p
aap specialization apni pasand ki field may ak rlijeyga accounting mat laina ;)

abhi me jaying
see u later INSHA ALLAH
ALLAH HAFIz T. c:)
 
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haan meko bhi accounting buri lagti hay ,,main bhi accounting may 67% mushkil se le paayi thi :p
aap specialization apni pasand ki field may ak rlijeyga accounting mat laina ;)

abhi me jaying
see u later INSHA ALLAH
ALLAH HAFIz T. c:)
haan agy acounting lo gi hi nai {)^})
Ok Allahahfiz tc tata
 
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