..."What A Friend Is"...

[samir]

Friendships come
and Friendships go
Like wave upon the sand
Like day and night
Like birds in flight
Like snowflakes when they land


But you and I are something else
Our friendship's here to stay
Like weeds and rocks and dirty socks
It never goes away!


A friend is a person
to laugh and cry with,
An inspiration,

Someone who lends a helping hand,
though friends may not be forever,
And they may not end up together,
the memories of a true friendship will
last forever.


A friend is not a shadow
nor a servant
But someone who holds
a piece of a person in his heart.


Someone who shares a smile,
Someone who brightens up your day
What makes a person a friend?
Is by saying your Love
will stay...
.
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[samir]

Sometimes in life,
you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life
just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh
until you can't stop;
Someone who makes you believe
that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you
that there really is an unlocked door
just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.
When you're down,
and the world seems dark and empty,
Your forever friend lifts you up in spirit
and makes that dark and empty world
suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through
the hard times, the sad times,
and the confused times.
Your forever friend holds your hand
and tells you that
everything is going to be okay.
And if you find such a friend,
you feel happy and complete,
because you need not worry.
You have a forever friend for life,
and forever has no end.
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[samir]

What Is A Friend?

A friend is somebody
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are.

Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.

A friend understands you
Without any words,
Stands by you
When nothing goes right.

And willingly talks
Over problems with you
Till they somehow
Just vanish from sight.

And whether you're neighbors
Or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift
To your heart and spirit.

That shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!!!

 

[samir]

* 10 Points to Maintain Friendship*


1. FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO A FRIEND, NOT WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF A
FRIENDSHIP.
- If being happy is your only motive for wanting someone to be your friend,
then you are not being a real friend. Don't get caught up in keeping tabs on
who has given most in the friendship. Give to your friends regardless of how
much they give to you.

2. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND.
- Real friends inspire and push each other to be the best that they can be,
rather than drag each other down. They are happy when other people achieve
their goals.

3. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
- Don't let hurt turn to grudge. This is one sure way to destroy a
friendship. Forgive your friend and move on.

4. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKES.
- This is one way to show concern for others. If you really care, you will
tactfully point out a specific example for his own good. But once you've
brought the problem to your friend's attention, don't harp on it all the
time. Don't walk away from a friendship when you see some of your friend's
faults. Be patient with a friend as he or she tries to change. Realize that
nobody is perfect.

5. BE RELIABLE.
- When you say you are going to be there, be there.

6. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIENDS.
- Real friendship does not mean you always have to be together. It may be
tempting to have a fun person all to yourself, and feel threatened when your
friend spends time with others. If you are afraid to let your friends out of
your sight, you are probably afraid of losing them. Good friendship will
endure time spent apart. You and your friends may learn to appreciate each
other even more.

7. BE THERE FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.
- Celebrate with them if your friends are excited about something. But don't
be there just for the good times. When your friend is upset about something,
give them your full attention. Most of the time, what friends really need is
a sympathetic ear, someone who understand their feelings.

8. LEARN TO ACCEPT PERSONALITY DIFFERENCES IN YOUR FRIENDS.
- Be careful not to evaluate other people by how you react in a particular
situation. Do not automatically take your friends' behaviour personally.

9. DON'T BE A BLABBERMOUTH.
- Learn and be willing to keep each other's secrets.

10.DON'T LET ARGUMENTS DESTROY YOUR FRIENDSHIP.
- Suppose you're having a discussion with a friend and after you've said
what you think is true, they still disagree. Don't keep arguing until you
get mad with each other. Just drop it. Your desire to win the argument may
ruin your friendship.


Always
Keep
Smiling!!!
​

 

[samir]

When you can be yourself and not pretend
About the way you feel inside your heart
When what you feel can not tear you apart
You know that you have found a loving friend
If they will stand beside you to the end
Support you through the hardest things you do
When they will answer just because it's you
You know that you have found a loving friend
If they will give you what they'd never lend
Tell you the truths you do not want to hear
When they look in your eyes and never fear
You know that you have found a loving friend
When you can be yourself and not pretend
You know that you have found a loving friend...
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[samir]

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If luck is a raindrop,I will send u a shower.
If hope is a minute,I ll send you an hour.
If happiness is a leaf, I ll give you a tree.
If u need a friend, u already have me...
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[samir]

"Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is before you can meet again. And meeting again after a moment or a lifetime is certain for those who are friends."

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[samir]

~ A Wish For A Sweet Friend ~

May The Sun Always Shine
On Your Windowpane

May A Rainbow Be Certain
To Follow Each Rain

May The Hand Of A Friend
Always Be Near You

May God Fill Your Heart
With Gladness To Cheer You...

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[samir]

When i cry and no one wipe my tears
When i think its you who is near

Friendship wipes away worries in heart
Your there to look at my face and replace a smile in my heart

I sometimes wonder if a friend realise how much i care
The time i spent hours thinking about them

I realise the one day you remember me in you heart my friend
Like a sunshine above the sky who shines on your face my friend

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[samir]

In life, we meet a lot of people,
but
make friends with few
in those few
some touch our life
in such a way that
their presence is felt
in their absence…

​

 

[samir]

Promise me you won't
Promise that you don't
Promise that you care
Promise you won't dare
Promise not to shut me out
Promise not to shout
Promise you won't cry
Promise you don't want to die
Promise you won't cut
If you do...
I can't promise to kepp my mouth shut.
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[samir]

deep friendship is like a rainbow
when the perfect
amounts of
happiness & tears
are mixed,
the result is a colorful
bridge between two hearts...

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[samir]

Friendship is like a leaf growing in tree
Keep it watering and fresh and grow

 

[afsheen]

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[samir]

Afsheen jiiiiiiiiiiiii

 

[humaa]

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[samir]

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Thanks Miss India

 

[nrbhayo]

nice sharing..